Indecision...

I've completely weaned my 13mo. little girl in the hopes of beginning TCC #2. Both the RE& OB let me know a few months back that this would be necessary. Now, I'm waiting around from AF, who is no where to be found. I had a few months of regularity which were hope inducing as this has not been normal for me. However, here I sit CD40+ ready to start and no AF. I'm not sure if I should call and as for proges.terone to kick start things or wait. Should I go with the OB and try that route again or visit the RE? I am so indecisive. IF land, any suggestions out there? I don't know what to do.